She looked up at me for the first time in twelve minutes.
Her heart was breaking, but something in the silence began to shift — a moment of connection, of permission to simply be sad.
This story from the therapy room explores what happens when we stop trying to fix heartbreak and instead meet it with presence, attachment healing, and the gentle wisdom of somatic therapy in NYC.
Book a first session with Esther Goldstein, trauma and relationship expert in new york and long Island.
Read MoreWhat’s your attachment style? In dating and relationships in New York City, this is a question that comes up often. You’ll want to date and marry someone with a secure attachment style as your life will be so much smoother. And, you’ll want to embody a secure attachment template as you’ll feel so much more comfortable in your skin when you feel secure - with yourself and others. Read more. book a session with expert relationship therapist Esther Goldstein in Long Island and New York.
Read MoreBeing a mindful parent takes time and commitment. How can we provide our children with confidence, security and healthy mindset that will set them up for success? We all want our children to grow up and build meaningful lives of their own. By exploring our own attachment patterns, we can model a whole new life for our kids - the kind of life we have always dreamed of!
Read MoreBeing a mindful parent takes time and commitment. How can you provide a framework for your children to help them develop into confident, solid individuals who can build meaningful lives? By exploring your own attachment patterns, you can learn to model a whole new life for your kids - the kind of lif you always wanted.
Read MoreMost human are chasing the feeling of happiness.
Based on a recent survey given to millennials about their most important life goals, over 80% responded by saying they would like to get rich, and over 50% of the same group shared that they would also like to attain fame in their lifetime.
The not-so-subtle message we receive is to do more, work harder and keep spinning that wheel until we achieve.
Read MoreDo you ever feel like your family system isn't typical? Ever have a sense that just don't fit in? Have you had a moment where you noticed the relationship of your sibling with your parent(s) and thought: "They have such a different connection or dynamic than I ever had or can ever imagine having with them".
Those are thoughts many siblings have about each other. It does not mean that your parents are that different in the ways they are from moment to moment. It would get exhausting if they changed the way they spoke to differ between each child.
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