Are you in a relationship with someone who is married, or is not fully ready to get into a relationship? Maybe they’re not “married” per se, but they are married to some unsettled issue in their life. A boundary they have not yet set, a work issue they need to tend to, children who need their attention or something else? Being available for a relationship means we have capacity to connect. Read more about a “married man” who was wanting to start dating before being ready.
Seeking counseling in New York? Reach out to see expert Ether Goldstein and Integrative Psychotherapy.
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Wow, you're so mature" is a comment many children get. Now, though it can sound like a compliment, is it really one? We are mean to go through our developmental milestones. Trauma can rob those "play-like" years. Read more.
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Am I Emotionally Available? Or, Emotionally Unavailable?
You’re snuggled between a few pillows on your bed, after hanging up the phone with your best friend, you’re physically comfy but you’re not feeling good inside. Though your best friend was very supportive, you don’t feel much better.
You get on the web to search “am I emotionally unavailable” or “am I with someone who is emotionally unavailable”.
You want to figure this out, and some steps to finally feel better. You’re in the right place. Keep reading. I’m a trauma and relationship therapist for 15 years, and I’ve got some insights for you. Book a FREE 15 min consult for a session today in our New York and Long Island office.
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You are sitting here hitting your head against a wall, wondering why, in the entire New York City, you haven't found the right book to help you find love. Or , you're trying to figure out the riddle to why you are feeling unfulfilled in your current relationship. I've got some wisdom to alleviate your worries and to guide you to relief and to relationship fulfillment. Read on about how to attract emotionally available partners, and how to improve your abilities to develop meaningful relationships. Book your first session to become more emotionally available in our New York office in person or virtually. Book with expert trauma and relationship therapist Esther Goldstein, Today.
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You notice that you get irritated and act out when youre stressed or overwhelmed. Almost in a child-like way. Though youre mature and smart, there are times when you get triggered and you revert to acting in a way a child would- you have tantrums. Adult tantrums. No, you’re not crazy for acting in this way but you may need to get some help to outgrow them. Good therapy that works on your development can help. book your first session in our new York and Long Island offices.
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