What’s your attachment style? In dating and relationships in New York City, this is a question that comes up often. You’ll want to date and marry someone with a secure attachment style as your life will be so much smoother. And, you’ll want to embody a secure attachment template as you’ll feel so much more comfortable in your skin when you feel secure - with yourself and others. Read more. book a session with expert relationship therapist Esther Goldstein in Long Island and New York.
Read MoreAll this talk of boundaries, but what are boundaries? What categories or types of boundaries do you need to know about? Getting clear on the different types of limits and margins that exist and need our attention.
Read MoreAlthough relationships are meant to be rewarding, they are more often than not, super challenging. Often the demands of our day-to-day lives feel out of sync with what we truly want out of life. I get how uncomfortable and confusing it can be to not understand the “reason” for your pain or the reason you have been struggling in your relationships.
Here are some tips and information to help you find some wisdom and insight to shift the way you are in relationships.
Read MoreCarl Rogers wisely says, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”
Forgiveness is one of the hardest lessons to learn and even more difficult to implement. At the same time, forgiveness is one of the first steps necessary in order to create a shift, a change, steering towards a new direction for yourself. How is it then, that we forgive ourselves for bad choices, habits, broken relationships, or having been stuck in the muck of "just getting-through-ness" for a while?
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